I know what you’re thinking. How in the world am I supposed to do everything on my list each day, take care of a family and myself AND still donate some of my “free time” to a worthy cause? If you are up for it, I have some ideas.
I am thinking about volunteering today as I prepare to be a dog biscuit baker tomorrow at a local non-profit called the Bark “N Howl Bakery. http://www.barknhowlbakery.com/ The organization called Career Frontiers of Northeast Florida has an effort that employs adults with intellectual disabilities in a bakery specializing in dog biscuits. The bakers also sell the biscuits in the community, and I have the opportunity to help tomorrow. Being a baker is a passion of mine, though tomorrow will be my first attempt at dog treats. Fingers are crossed!
My son started Kindergarten this year, so I have between about 9:00 and 2:30 to get everything done that I need to concentrate on. That includes running my business, having meetings, attending Chamber of Commerce and other industry events and, if it’s going to happen, squeezing in an occasional lunch with a girl friend. With this limited time frame, it can be tough to carve out time to volunteer, and the evenings and weekends are equally as scheduled. (As I’m sure yours are.)
But volunteering has its rewards, and I always remember the times when someone has volunteered to help me. I think of it as a responsibility of mine, just like those listed above. Of course, charity begins at home, and we must be sure that our families and ourselves are cared for first. That is important to note because if you are volunteering to make another child’s life better, but your kids never see you (or you are exhausted from being over committed), it’s not exactly an accomplished goal.
Assuming that you have caught up on your sleep, things are going smoothly and you have some energy to give to the world, consider doing one of these charitable endeavors, which can be done with baby or toddler in tow, if needed:
* Volunteer to watch a friend’s baby, allowing her a couple hours of quiet time. You can stay home (where you would be anyway), your child can enjoy the play mate, and your friend will relish the freedom with no baby sitter bill. Time is so valuable. This is a small effort that has a huge pay off for the recipient.
* Offer to do busy work for your favorite non-profit during down time at home. Perhaps your church could use some help organizing paperwork for an upcoming event. Or a non-profit needs some phone calls made for the next fundraiser. If you have 15 minutes a day, you can make a dent in the work load, save the agency precious dollars, and feel great that you gave of your time and talents- all without leaving your home.
* Throw an extra casserole or entree in the oven when you make dinner, and give the gift of nourishment to another busy person. Is your neighbor going through an illness? Is there a Mom at your child’s preschool who is overwhelmed? Or is someone from your book club moving or adjusting to a lifestyle change? Think of how special they would feel if you showed up with a lasagna “just because.”
To me, “volunteering” or “charity” come in many forms, and any time I can make someone’s life a little brighter, I consider that a bonus for me. I have certainly been the recipient of acts of kindness, and I love finding ways to “donate” of myself, even when time and resources seem too tight. I hope you’ll pay a kindness to someone today – especially to yourself. You deserve it.